The Cornerstone Concept: In Leadership, In Life Roberta M. Gilbert Thinking It Over sections at end of chapter are good chapter by chapter summaries. Questions at the end may be good journaling activities. Memorize the indicators of self-differentiation in chapter 7. I’m curious why Gilbert never seems to reference Ed Friedman, even in bibliographies. […]
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Book Notes – The Cornerstone Concept: In Leadership, In Life
Posted: January 29, 2014 by Todd in Books, MinistryTags: anxiety, family systems theory, fusion, guiding principles, individuality, individuation, jesus, leadership, ministry, pseudo-self, Robert M. Gilbert, Roberta Gilbert, separateness, togetherness
Extraordinary Leadership: Thinking Systems, Making a Difference
Posted: January 29, 2014 by Todd in Books, MinistryTags: conflict, cutoff, distance, family systems theory, individuation, leadership, overfunctioning, Roberta Gilbert, Roberta M. Gilbert, triangling, underfunctioning
Extraordinary Leadership: Thinking Systems, Making a Difference Roberta Gilbert Finished September, 2012. Best parts to re-read: Top level map of book at end of xvii and xviii. A fair amount of the book is looking at conflict, cutoff, distancing, triangling, underfunctioning, and overfunctioning through different lenses. The different lenses are helpful, but have diminishing returns. […]
Book Notes – A Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix
Posted: January 29, 2014 by Todd in Books, MinistryTags: A Failure of Nerve, differentiation, Ed Friedman, Edwin Friedman, Edwin H. Friedman, Failure of Nerve, family systems theory, fortitude, Generation to Generation, individuation, leadership, ministry, sabotage, triangling
A Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix Edwin H. Friedman Brilliant book for developing the emotional fortitude necessary for leadership. A little crotchety for my tastes at times, but some of that may come with the territory. Finished April, 2012. Outline/Summary: Editor’s Preface Ed Friedman died prematurely while working […]